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Thomas Emslie

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THOMAS EMSLIE

August 16, 1993 – April 12, 2020

With heavy hearts, we announce the sudden passing of Thomas Walter Emslie, at the young age of 26.

 

Thomas is predeceased by his beloved grandmother, Helen Dzioba. Left to cherish his memory are parents, Kelly Emslie (Joe) and Michael Dzioba (Kristy); grandfather, Walter Dzioba; siblings, Craig, Tye, Mikey, Kaylee, and Jennie; uncles, Mark Dzioba, Mark MacLean (Debbie), Aunts Darlene McChesney (Marcel), Kimberley Fleeson, Lesley MacLean, Susan Wectawski (Chris) and cousins, Michael, Jason, Shaun, Maegan, Grant, Amy, Tara, Ryan, Scott, Tyler and Ashley. Thank you on Thomas's behalf go to Mark and Mandy Bergen for the many instances of guidance given to Thomas, who we considered to be his 'auxiliary parents'.

 

Thomas grew up in Winnipeg surrounded by his siblings, with whom he spent many hours playing outside as a small boy. He loved to swim and kayak, and enjoyed going out to the movies with his family. He attended Elmwood High School where he participated in football and excelled at wrestling. After high school he continued to participate in athletic events, including many marathons and triathlons, often without officially registering and running alongside all the other participants just for the fun of it. He placed within the elite several times in the annual Mountain Man marathon while in the military, where he served eight years with the PPCLI. He will be greatly missed by his brothers in arms, so many of them had warm stories to share with us after his passing.

 

An avid fan of live outdoor music festivals, Thomas enjoyed attending dressed up, and was well known in the EDM community for his epic dance moves and for his colorful character onesies, of which he had an entire closet packed full, always ready to lend any or all to those that might attend with him. Knowing how much he was thrilled by the music, lights and social interaction gives us much comfort as a family, as Thomas's journey through life was often not an easy one. Special thanks owed to those that helped him along the way belong to Marymound School, Manitoba Adolescent Treatment Center, and Edgewood Treatment Center all of who's counselors and teachers were always ready with support and direction when he needed it most.

 

He had such a unique sense of humor and outlook, his ability to irritate and amuse someone at the same time was a skill unmatched, as well as his ability to clear out the fridge. His grandmother could often be heard saying 'he's such a good eater'. He had a special fondness for the furry four-legged family members, the dogs in particular returned that fondness, the cats not so much as he often made a game out of chasing them for his amusement. The cats liked him better when he was sleeping.

 

Thomas's ability to light up a room and his beautiful bright smile will be sorely missed. He left us far too soon.

Friends and relatives are encouraged to share memories, stories, and/or condolences for the family by using the comment section on this page.

 

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Canadian Mental Health Association.

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The Lord will be with you until the end of the age. ~Matthew 28:20

November 17, 2023 at 11:36 PM

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I faithfully vow to live regardless of the challenges that I must face.

October 30, 2023 at 12:21 AM

It is with sudden shock that the headlines informed me on the rescue of Corporal Emslie's mortal body from this world of war into the heavenly dwelling prepared by The Conqueror of Death by the majesty of our almighty Sovereign.  May this devastating moment be with The Right Honourable 伍冰枝, P.C., C.C., C.M.M., C.O.M., C.D., F.R.S.C., F.R.A.I.C., F.R.C.P.S.C. and each member of the Princess Patricia's Canadian Light Infantry (P.P.C.L.I.) in Right of Her Late Majesty Queen Victoria represented by The Honourable William Sterling Blair, P.C., C.O.M., P.E.S.M., M.St.J., M.P. as the Minister of National Defence, The Honourable Chief Justice Marianne Rivoalen and every highly dignified Judge in the Manitoba Law Courts represented by The Honourable Minister of Justice and Attorney General, Keeper of the Great Seal of the Province of Manitoba, Minister responsible for the Manitoba Public Insurance Corporation, and all the people that went above and beyond their call of duty to help this sinner throughout the turbulent times of the life my fellow saint.

Michael Gonzalez

July 24, 2020 at 7:43 PM

I share my condolences to the family and his close friends. I was really surprise and sad when I learn that he was not with us anymore. Thomas has a powerfull positive energy. I've met him on the electronic scene in Montreal. We meet randomly in the metro station, he was looking for his way to go in a bar club (Stereo) where I was goin. His big smile, his laugh, his presence put myself in such a ease so we've gone there together. I will never forget his dance skills and his love for it as he entrusted it to me.  We danced together a long time, then go to the after party. I've met him the day after, we were more close and share some personal and funny stories. He showed me that he was a military, who can appear serious and strict, but he got sooooo much humor and creativity. I've meet him another time in a festival, I mean, you can't miss him when he is in a festival, he was a colorfull heart as he was wearing his clothes. I really liked the way he was, his way.  I'm sure that Thomas as share so many good things, stories, memories and even inspire people as myself. I knew him only a bit, but that was enought to know how a good person he was and that i'll never forget him. Rest in peace, you were already blessed.

Mark and Mandy Bergen

July 1, 2020 at 12:32 PM

It's taken us time to share our condolences, as it makes saying good bye all that more real. Summer is here and we wish we could go to this wonderful place in Lethbridge again. In the photo you will notice the canyon walls along the st.mary's river. When we arrived, we could see in the far distance, climbing the walls of the canyon, a 'tigger'.! Other times, we would look down , and see a 'shark' floating down the river. It is hard for us to say good bye to our son, brother, who was always there for us, whenever we needed him. He was always there to help with our renovations projects, and afterwards, always there to help with 'quality assurance' on the meals. Mark will miss him stopping by for a beer, even when the boys weren't around. On behalf of the Bergen Family, we are deeply sorry , and will keep in our hearts forever, the gifts he gave us. - Laughter, Joy, warmth, free spirit and True heart. 

John Laforest

May 24, 2020 at 1:52 PM

Gone too soon. Thomas Emslie was a familiar face Of 2 PPCLI at the annual Mountain Man event. He was a top ten soldier/competitor and those who knew him might say he was a top ten friend and person. My condolences to the family. 

Christian (Chrissy)

May 7, 2020 at 6:08 PM

 So sorry to hear about your loss. I knew Emsiley from when he lived in Elm wood. He hung out with my neighbor Brendon. We became pretty good friends. He had the best smile. His little nerdy Justin beiber hair and cute braces. We'd go to movies purposely go to the late shows so we'd all miss the bus and hang out longer. I remember his dad picked us up on the side of the road one day and Em's was grounded for a week. When we said goodbye we talked as it were his last time laughing. We'd walk around the forks and monkey trails. Spend our money on cheap pizza. After we moved from Elmwood he'd bus downtown to hang with us. We'd spend our evening playing video games, walking, and talking about random stuff. So many beautiful cherished memories. As time went on we only spoke briefly on fb and he'd send me his crazy videos on snap chat. Seen his butt more than I would've liked Ha ha was always so full of jokes, love, and smiles. Always talked about dancing. So thankful for time we spent together.

Kim Gulas

May 5, 2020 at 7:06 PM

Kelly, I’m so sorry to learn of the loss of  your son. My heart breaks for you. My condolences to you, family and friends. He sure grew up to be a handsome young man.  - Kim Gulas ❤

Youngho Kang

May 2, 2020 at 1:38 PM

I would like to express my condolences to the Emslie family. I met Emslie when I joined 2PPCLI in 2014. We were in the same Company for a short period. He always had a smile on him and fun to hangout with him. I still remember the day when he said, “Hi Kang!” As loud as he could out the window of his PMQ when I was walking home from work. That made my day. He was a true friend and will be truly missed.

Adam Drake

May 1, 2020 at 2:05 PM

To the Emslie family I would like to extend my deepest condolences. I had the pleasure of meeting Emslie when I joined 2 PPCLI in 2014. However, he became a true friend when we were in the same platoon in Ukraine together in 2016. I spent a lot of time with him over there and will never forget his amazing ability to turn a bad day into a good one with his great sense of humour. Emslie truly embodied the best of PPCLI and will be truly missed. 

vkennedy

April 27, 2020 at 2:34 PM

For the Emslie Family - On behalf of the entire Patricia family I express our condolences to you on the loss of Thomas.  My poor memory does not allow me to recall if I met Thomas myself, but from the outpouring of respect and admiration, as well as the words of his fellow soldiers and leaders, he was obviously one of our finest.  As a Winnipeg born and raised kid myself, I am glad he got to serve in 2 PPCLI for those years.  His service to the Regiment, the Army and Canada will not be forgotten.  The PPCLI thanks every one of you, Thomas's family, for the love and support you gave him in achieving all that he was known for.   I am sure it was an important element in Thomas's life, and a big contribution to his success. Brigadier-General (Ret'd) Vince Kennedy Colonel of the Regiment Princess Patricia's Canadian Light Infantry

Bryce

April 26, 2020 at 1:44 AM

Thomas and I ran the manitoba half marathon together in 2015, about a month after this photo was taken. I found a water bottle that had fallen out of someone's belt and jokingly suggested that we find the owner. Thomas must not have got the joke because he would go up to everyone with a belt and ask if they were missing a bottle. It was one of the best runs of my life and we found the owner in a crowd of thousands. My deepest condolences to all his friends and family.

Lori

April 25, 2020 at 10:57 PM

I met Thomas through my fiancé who was in the military with him. He was such a funny person. He was always up for making people laugh and always turning an awkward situation into a funny one. We always looked forward to hanging out with him and boy could he eat and stay trim! He was definitely a unique individual, full of energy and excitement. Once he left the military, we still kept in touch and I enjoyed his dance videos and costumes. He will be missed so much. He left us too soon. We will never forget you. My condolences to his family and friends from Nick and I. ❤RIP Thomas Emslie and May you keep the party going in heaven 

Tierannai Lewis

April 25, 2020 at 8:20 PM

Thomas and I were classmates at Chapman. My favourite memories with him were the sleepovers he would have with my brother and I, and going out to the lake with my family. Although he and I drifted apart after moving to different schools he and I would keep in touch through social media, and I thought of him often. Thinking of you Kelly, and Craig.  - Tierannai L 

Casey Hunter

April 25, 2020 at 8:19 PM

Me and Emslie would like to go for runs sometimes , one of these would be the mud hero run every summer where we would just sneak into the race . I have ran marathons before but when we would do this 10k race I would always be staring at his back trying to keep up with him . He had an endless drive and energy and he Would just never quit . Every time I think of him I just see his smiling face , I’m grateful for that .

David Sadai

April 25, 2020 at 5:00 PM

I had the privilege to be Thomas's Fire Team Partner through the worst 13 weeks of our Military Career during the DP1 course to become an Infanteer. It was there where we shared many memories and thoughts that are forever special to me. He always had a skill to be able to brighten even the worst circumstances. He was one hell of a friend and I will always miss how great of a person he truly was. Rest in Peace my good friend, forever in my heart. -Dave S

Shawna Rudd

April 25, 2020 at 3:51 PM

We remember Thomas from his time at Chapman School. His mischievous smile, beautiful eyes and dimples made forgetting the “tough” days easier. It sounds like his struggles continued but at the same time he really lived a full life with the military, many friends and many interests. Our condolences to Kelly and Craig..... Hugs from Mrs. Gregoire, Mrs. Wood, Miss Bradley  😤

Tori

April 25, 2020 at 3:40 PM

My condolences to all friends and family. Emslie was a legend. I knew him in our younger years and I've never forgotten about him. He was without a doubt, something else. So full of life and jokes. It was hard not to smile when you were around him. He was so well mannered, mindful, an all around gentleman as far as I'm concerned. Years after I've moved away there was a time that me and my friends had a toy horse, it seemed like nothing at the time, something no one from back home would ever hear about, but I named it Emslie. I'd get soooo mad if people didn't say it right haha. I named it Emslie because it was full of life, that toy horse was going to take care of me, we made this whole story about how gallant hed be, and when you were sad, hed make you happy by dancing or eating a whole pizza in under 5 minutes. Over the years I've also been writing here and there, and it wasn't uncommon that I'd think of all this crazy kids traits for a character. I've always had a soft spot for him in my heart. I wish I could have come to visit more, kept in contact better. I'll carry your memory Ems. I'll miss you pal ♥️ 

Nancy James

April 25, 2020 at 2:49 PM

Kelly Jim and I are so sorry to hear about your son Thomas. What a handsome young man he grew up to be. Take care Jim and Nancy James (U of W)❤

Cris J

April 25, 2020 at 1:26 PM

Thomas, i was gutted when I heard the news. As many others have said, you always had the ability to light up a room. I still fondly remember many of your antics and they still make me smile and laugh. You really were one of a kind. My hearts out to friends and family in this hard time. I'm glad i met you

Shannon@ Trevor Marchenski

April 25, 2020 at 1:20 PM

What a beautiful tribute.. he was a true gentleman with the soul and heart so beyond his years.  Thank you Emslie for allowing us to meet your acquaintance.. Granny is up there now, too... when you cross paths again, stop by just to say hello.... Rest or Shine on you crazy Diamond❤

Abi Torres

April 25, 2020 at 1:17 PM

Amazing soul. Always knew how to get the dance floor started and beautiful tribute. He will be missed🙏

Joel

April 25, 2020 at 1:04 PM

I danced with Thomas at our dance hall every weekend, he was the nicest guy and the best dancer. I'm so sad that he won't be able to come dance with us anymore. At one event four months ago, we both danced until the lights came on at the end. We walked out together  and he commented on my housecoat and how it looked  like I just woke up, and how funny it was. I joked that I did and I was on my way to breakfast. Weekends won't be the same without him. I always thought he was the coolest guy at the party. Right before the covid lockdown we were out dancing, and we spoke at the end of the night. He and I spoke about a few things and he invited me to come dance the following weekend. I eagerly replied Yes I would and see him there. Then covid stopped social gatherings and we never got to have our dance. Thomas had no fear, and left an impression on strangers from 100 yards away in less than a minute, with his amazing energy and bodacious dance moves. He is and will forever be sorely missed by a family of dance addicts that loved him unconditionally and will do anything for him. 

Cindy

April 25, 2020 at 1:01 PM

My Deepest Condolence to you Kelly and Family.  It is a shame that he was taken so early. I have only two personal memories of Thomas but you told so many stories to us over the years at work and in the lunchroom that we will always remember them. HUGGS MY FRIEND!!

Shylo

April 25, 2020 at 12:56 PM

I coached Thomas in wrestling and football when he attended Elmwood High. My condolences go out to the all family and friends. Thomas was tenacious, strong and had grit. He was a great team mate who could was quick with a smile and could easily make you smile as well.... He will be missed and I certainly mourn his loss.

Colleen Ans

April 25, 2020 at 12:19 PM

My favourite memory with Emslie was when we were together at a house party and I found this blanket that was so soft and warm I wanted to dance around in it all night, after receiving some weird looks I felt self conscious and put it back on the couch. When Emslie noticed this he picked up the blanket and began dancing in his wild and contagious way, making me want to be wrapped up in it again, so he put it back around my shoulders and we danced the night away. He taught me so many things in that moment: to dance like no one is watching, that it doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks about you, and that matter will always have your back. Emslie was a great friend, and I feel him every time I dance, so I’ll never stop dancing. 

Enid Kaminski

April 25, 2020 at 10:05 AM

A wonderful tribute video.  My deepest condolences to the family and friends for the loss of such a vibrant energetic young man.  Gone too soon.❤

Jack Nadorozny

April 25, 2020 at 9:09 AM

During my time in the military, I will always remember Thomas being the person who would always bring the most energy to a room or place and always trying to make light of things with his funny sense of humour. He will be greatly missed. My condolences. 

Desiree Payne

April 25, 2020 at 8:43 AM

Most of the events in my life include Thomas, he was always excitedly receiving my news or happily by my side. He lives on very strong in my memories and heart. I miss him with my whole heart. I send my condolences to his family and friends ❤

Chris Rarick

April 24, 2020 at 9:14 PM

I remember taking Thomas hunting and fishing in Ontario several years ago.   He did get bored easily but always found his own ways, sometimes annoyingly,  to entertain himself.  He had the biggest smile when he caught a fish, no matter what size.  He will be missed. My condolences to his family and friends.  Chris Rarick 

Sue Wectawski

April 24, 2020 at 8:26 PM

Such a beautiful tribute. My eyes are full of tears but my heart is full of love. I’m so thankful for all the time I had with you, when you were young! Wish I had one more hug. Love, Auntie Susies

Matthew Ladouceur

April 24, 2020 at 8:23 PM

Many memories flood my mind and have stuck close to the top of my head in the last week. I am still in disbelief and wish I could of been there to help my friend with whatever he was facing. Thomas always had a smile on and put others happiness before his own. I will forever miss him and be puzzled as to why. Rest with the ones you wish to. Love you forever and always.

Lauren

April 24, 2020 at 8:02 PM

I didn't know Thomas well, however, whenever he came out to an event, he would come say hello. His energy on the dancefloor was unmatched and he would easily increase the good vibes the moment he entered the room. I wish I had had the chance to get to know him better. My condolences to your family ❤

Shane Formanger

April 24, 2020 at 7:54 PM

Whenever he entered the room you could see everyone's faces light up with happiness & laughter. The memories I have with him were for the books and I'll miss the Edmonton visits. I bet this man could dance his way out of a speeding ticket if he really tried. Never seen a human being move like that.. Rest easy man ❤

Janet Jones

April 24, 2020 at 7:01 PM

May you find peace at this very challenging time of your life.  My sympathies 

Mackenzie Strickland

April 24, 2020 at 6:04 PM

I used to hang out with him as a kid. I remember the nights we’d stay up playing GameCube or building legos. He had this blanket too that he used to suck on the corner of when he’d sleep. He was so funny. Sad to hear he’s gone 

Robin Cartwright

April 24, 2020 at 3:20 PM

All my love to all who knew and loved him. I am heartbroken for all watching the beautiful slide slow.  -The Cartwright Family in Antigonish, NS
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